Litsebi tsa kelello li re boitšisinyo bo ka bolela ho hongata ka maikutlo a motho ho feta mantsoe a hae, hobane hangata re etsa mekhoa ea 'mele ntle le ho tseba, mochine, ho ipeha tlas'a maikutlo a hare,' me re ke ke ra ba laola kamehla. Kahoo ke habohlokoa hore u tsebe hore na boitšisinyo bo bolela eng, mohlala, matsoho, e le hore u utloisise hore na interlocutor ea hau ke efe, e bulehileng, e khutsitse kapa e thabile, joalo-joalo.
Lipontšo tsa matsoho le liatla tsa matsoho li bolela'ng?
Hangata matsoho a motho a shebile. 'Me ba lula ba ba ela hloko haholo ka boemo ba puisano. Haeba mohanyetsi oa hao a sithabelitsoe ke maikutlo a matla, joale matsoho le matsoho a hae a ke ke a phomola, mohlomong o tla sotha ntho e matsohong a hae, a otla ntho e itseng, lintho tse amang maikutlo, liaparo tsa hae, moriri, joalo-joalo. Ke habohlokoa ho tseba hore na ke boitšisinyo bofe bo buang ka bona, e le ho hlalosa ka mokhoa o nepahetseng boits'oaro ba molekane oa motho, ho lebisa tlhokomelo eseng feela ka mantsoe.
Ketso ea pele e ka buang haholo ka motho ke ho lumelisa ka matsoho. Haeba e le motho ea laolang, o tla otlolla letsoho la hae pele, a letele ka letsoho. Ba batla ho bontša tlhompho e ikhethang esita le ho ba makhoba, batho ba otlolla letsoho, ba shebane le nthong. Ea lumellanang, ea sa hanyetsanang le mohanyetsi ea lihlong, mohlomong, o tla u fa letsoho, o khelose. Ha motho a sa sireletseha, motho ea batlang ho fokolloa ke letsoho, letsoho le tla be le fokotsehile ebile le otlolohile, 'me letsoho la letsoho le fokola.
Matšoao a mang a matsoho le moelelo oa oona:
- batho ba atisa ho otlolla matsoho a bona mahlakoreng 'me ba bontša matsoho a bona-oa tšepahala ebile o bulehile ho buisana;
- matsoho le lifate, ho fapana le hoo, bua ka ho falimeha le ho se itokisetse ho ikopanya;
- lipale tsa lifate li phunyelelana li bua ka boithati bo ikhethang ba mohanyetsi;
- matsoho ka lipokothong, haholo-holo haeba motho a lutse ka nako e le 'ngoe - letšoao la ho ba mabifi le ho halefa;
- matsoho a ntse a tsamaea, motho a lula a sisinya moriri, a ama sefahleho sa hae, joalo-joalo. O leka ho bua leshano;
- Monna o koahela molomo ka letsoho la hae-ha a lumellane le uena, empa ha a tsilatsile ho hanyetsa;
- liatla tse otlolohileng, tse tobaneng le tse ling - e leng letšoao le nang le morero le le thata ho puisano ea batho;
- liphaka li lutse moeling oa tafole - mohanyetsi o lebeletse ho fumana thuso ho uena;
- li-brushes tse nang le halofo-lekaneng - mo-interlocutor ha a batle likhohlano , o itokiselitse ho sekisetsa ha ho buisana;
- letsoho le leng le tšoere letsoho le leng - motho ha a tsebe liketso le mantsoe a hae, empa o leka ho hula hammoho.
Mokhoa o tloaelehileng ka ho fetisisa oa menoana le moelelo oa bona
Ho na le seo ho thoeng ke boitšisinyo ba machaba, bo utloisisoang hantle ke batho ba tsoang lefats'eng lohle. 'Me hangata ba li sebelisa ho hlōla tšitiso ea puo. Leha ho le joalo, ho hlokahala hore u sebelise ka hloko ka liketso tse nang le menoana, tse tloaelehileng ho ba Europe, ka mohlala, ka Mamosleme le linaheng tse ling. Ka mor'a moo, bona ba ka tšoaroa e le ba sa hlompheheng.
Kahoo, letšoao le tsebahalang la "OK" - lesela le lekaneng le letšoao la letsoho-hangata ke pontšo ea tumello. Empa Brazil le linaha tsa Maarabia, ho bolela ho ba le kamano e haufi le kamano e haufi-ufi 'me e khopisa. Japane, ketso ena e lokela ho utloisisoa e le potso "Ke bokae?".
Tlhaloso ea liketso tse ling tse nang le menoana ea hau:
- e koaletsoeng ka menoana ea "bolutu" - polelo ea ho se lumellane ho khutsitseng le mantsoe a hau, esita le haeba motho a ntse a bososela, etsa bonnete ba hore o tla lahla tlhahiso ea hau;
- menoana e kenngoa ka lesoba - pontšo ea ho thibela khatello, mohanyetsi oa hau a ka 'na a phatloha metsotso leha e le efe;
- ho qetella ha menoana e etsang ntlo-pontšo ea kholiseho ea mohokahanyi ka boeena, o fumana boikutlo bo phahameng, mme mantsoe a hau a etsa hore motho a bososela ho bososela.