Ha nako e ntse e ea, potso ea boithati e atamela motho e mong le e mong. Ntho ea pele ea ho metsoa le tšusumetso matsatsing ana a thata ke, ka mokhoa o makatsang, ho se khotsofale le bophelo ba hau. Ke batho ba seng bakae feela ba khotsofatsoang ke bophelo ba bona le sebaka sa bona sechabeng, empa e le hore ba fetole tikoloho ea bona, maemo le tsela ea bophelo, re tlameha ho qala ho fetola. Ho hlaolela bokhoni ba bona, bohle ba khona ho ntlafatsa boleng ba bophelo.
Mekhoa ea kajeno ea kelello, ea moea le ea kelello e fana ka khetho e kholo ka ho fetisisa ea litsela tsa ho ntlafatsa le ho iketsetsa botsitso, leha ho le joalo, bakeng sa motho ka mong ke tsela, ho senyeha ha mekhoa e metle le mekhahlelo ea khōlo ea botho. Ho sebetsana le mefokolo ea bona le ho hlōla mefokolo e thibelang motho ho hlaolela ho hloka boiteko bo matla, tšusumetso e tebileng le khato e sa khaotseng.
Motho a ka fana ka litlhahiso tse tloaelehileng mabapi le hore na o ka qala joang ho ntlafatsa le ho itlhahisa, fana ka mehlala le ho bontša litaelo, empa ntho e ka sehloohong ts'ebetsong ena ke takatso ea motho le mosebetsi o moholo oa motho ka boeena. Mohato oa pele tseleng ena ke ho susumetsa le ho beha sepheo sa sepheo.
Litsela tsa boithati le boithati
Ho itlhokomelisa e le motho, ho hlahloba liphoso tsa motho, katleho ea hae, litšobotsi tse ntle le tse mpe ho fa motho monyetla oa ho utloisisa hore na ke hobane'ng ha a sa khone ho finyella lipakane tse itseng. Pele ho tsohle o hloka ho hopola lintlha tsa ho fetola bophelong ba hau mme u etse lethathamo:
- Ke liketso tse etsang hore u halefe kapa u hlajoe ke lihlong.
- Litlhoko tse hlahisitsoeng ho uena le uena.
- Lethathamo la mathata a thibelang ho phela le ho ntshetsa pele.
- Liphoso tsa botho tse thibelitseng katleho.
Boithapollo ba boithati le boithati ba bona bo ke ke ba khoneha ntle le ho lemoha liphoso tsa bona, liphoso le boikutlo ba boikutlo ba boikutlo ba boikutlo ba boikutlo ba boikutlo ba boikutlo ba boikutlo ba boikutlo ba boikutlo ba boikutlo ba boikutlo ba molato, U se ke ua batla ba molato oa liphoso tsa bona. Esita le haeba pale ea bophelo ba hao e fetoha maikutlo le bobe bo sa hlokahaleng, u lokela ho e tšoara ka mokhoa o nepahetseng le ho thibeloa, joalokaha eka o bala ka motho ea tsoang ka ntle. Ha u hlokomela, motsotso oo oa bophelo ba hau, ha u sa tsamaee tseleng ea hau, u robehile, u ka utloisisa, amohela le ho tšoarela uena le ba bang. Ho tloha joale ho ea pele, ho ikutloela bohloko, ho ikemela le ho hlonama ho tla ba thuto ho uena feela.
Tsela ea ho ntlafatsa le ho iketsetsa botho e na le mekhahlelo e 'maloa ea motheo, e koahelang litekanyetso tsohle tsa bophelo:
- tsoelo-pele ea moea;
- boemo ba maikutlo;
- bokhoni ba kelello;
- bophelo bo botle ba 'mele;
- litsebo tsa litsebi;
- boemo ba sechaba.
Ho ke ke ha khoneha ho fetola feela tseleng e le 'ngoe, kaha ntho e' ngoe le e 'ngoe e ka motho e kopanngoa mme e etsa moralo o le mong oa motho ka mong . Ke habohlokoa ho utloisisa hore ho finyella sepheo ha se ts'oaetso ea nakoana, empa ke mosebetsi o boima oa letsatsi le leng le le leng. Qala "diary" ea hao ea katleho le ho ngola letsatsi le leng le le leng esita le katleho ea hau le merero ea hau ea letsatsi le hlahlamang.
Har'a lingoliloeng tse fapa-fapaneng tse mabapi le nts'etso-pele ea botho le bokhoni, motho a ka fumana libuka tsa ho itlhophisa 'me a etsa lethathamong la bangoli ba molemo ka ho fetisisa. Ho latela maikutlo le litlhahiso tsa babali ba litsebi tsa kelello, u ka tlisa karoloana e nyane feela ea lingoliloeng tse tšoanelehang tse tla u thusa ho itlhalosa le ho fumana tsela ea hau:
- Peel Norman "Matla a Monahano o Molemo".
- Steve Pavlina "Thuto ea Botho Bakeng sa Batho ba Bohlale".
- John Kehoe "Motho ea sa tsebeng letho o ka etsa letho."
- Dmitry Leushkin "Turbo-Ground Squirrel".
- Konstantin Sheremetyev "Boko bohle ba bokooa. Tsela ea ho laola tsela eo motho a sa tsebeng letho ka eona. "
- Adam Jackson "Litaba Tse 10 tsa Thabo".
- Victor Vasiliev "White Book".
- Eric Berne "Lipapali tseo batho ba bapalang ho tsona."
- Dan Millman "Tsela ea Mohlabani ea Nang le Khotso".
- Eckhart Tolle "Matla a motsotso hona joale."