Ka linako tse ling mahlomola a re lahlela mathata a joalo, tharollo e lokelang ho batloa ka lilemo. Hangata hangata bothata ba kelello bo rarahaneng ka ho fetisisa bo hlaha moo ho nang le barupeluoa ba bangata ba qobelloang ho arolelana tšimo e tloaelehileng: mohlala, basebetsi-'moho kapa litho tsa lelapa. 'Me haeba ba pele, ha ba le likamano tse mpe mosebetsing, ba khutlela hae, moo mofuthu o mofuthu oa beng ka bona o ba letetseng, joale ha ho na kae moo ba ka eang teng: ntlo ea bona ha e sa le qhobosheane, empa e le "tšimo ea sesole" ka pele.
Tsebo ea kelello malebana le likamano tsa lelapa bakeng sa seo, 'me ho na le ho buisana le bona, ha kamano ea beng ka' ona e "qhaqhoa."
Melemo ea boiketlo: psychology ea likamano tsa malapa le malapa
- bothata bo tloaelehileng. Ho tsosolosa khotso malapeng a nang le mathata ke habohlokoa hore litho tsohle tsa lona li hlokomele hore sena ke se tloaelehileng 'me ka nako e ts'oanang bothata ba motho: motho e mong o etsa ntho e fosahetseng,' me likhohlano li bōptjoa molemong ona;
- ho thusa ka bobeli. E le hore ho rarolloe phapang leha e le efe, ho hlokahala hore batho ba thusane esita leha ba nyelise lithahasello tsa bona;
- Lintoa tseo ho seng ba hlōlang ho tsona. Ntoeng leha e le efe ea malapa ho na le "ba lahlehetsoeng ke" feela, hobane lehae ke sebaka seo motho a ka balehelang mathateng a sona mme a boela a fumana matla a hae. Haeba "lejoe" lena le fetoha sebaka sa likhohlano, joale ho fapana le hoo, ho hloka boiteko bo bongata.
Bothata palo ea 1 kamanong ea malapa le ea lelapa - boikarabello
Ho hloka boikarabelo bo le bong ke e 'ngoe ea mathata a tloaelehileng a lelapa. Batho ba baholo le bana ba lokela ho utloisisa hore ba lokela ho hlokomelana haholo: ho fana ka tlhokomelo le lerato, tse lokelang ho bontšoa eseng ka mantsoe feela, empa hape le liketsong. Ka mohlala, ho qobella monna ea khathetseng hore a lokise monyako, mosali o lokela ho utloisisa hore hosasane o tla sebetsa a khathetse, 'me ho tla ba thata haholo hore a mamelle tlhōlisano e busang ka ntle ho marako a ntlo ea bona. Ho khathala kamehla ho tla etsa hore a tlohele ho sebetsa le ho tlisa chelete ntlong. Ka lehlakoreng le leng, monna, a phehella mosali oa hae hore a lokisetse hang-hang lijo tsa mantsiboea kapa a behe lintho hantle ka tlung, ka mor'a hore a khutle ka thata mosebetsing - ha a na boikarabelo ho eena.
Mokhoa oa ho theha likamano lelapeng tabeng ee? Ho rarolla bothata ba boithati le boikarabello, o hloka ho bua hore na ke hobane'ng ha u etsa sena. Ke ka puisano feela e ka "tloaelang" litho tsa malapa ho hlokomelana.
Bothata palo ea bobeli likamanong tsa lelapa - monna ea botsoa kapa mosali
Ho se sebetse ha molekane ho sitisa ho hloka toka: ke hobane'ng ha motho a lokela ho sebetsa ka thata, 'me mantsiboeeng a "boemo ba halofo-ba shoeleng" ea mokhathala o oela betheng,' me motho e mong le e mong o pholile, 'me o thabela mosebetsi oa e mong? Hona hape ke bothata bo tloaelehileng ho banyalani, moo molekane e mong a kenyelletsanang, 'me e mong ke mofuthu o tsitsitseng.
Mokhoa oa ho ntlafatsa likamano tse joalo ka lapeng joang? Mohlomong, ho hlalosetsa molekane ea botsoa hore na ho thata hakaakang ho uena le hore o lokela ho sebetsa ha ho na thuso, kahoo u lokela ho ipolokela u le mong. Bakeng sa sena ho hlokahala ho hlalosa ka mokhoa o utloahalang le ka bohlale hore na o tlameha ho etsa joang kajeno, hosasane, ka khoeli. Qala hantle ka libaka tse khutšoanyane,
Bothata № 3 ea likamano tsa lelapa - matriarchy kapa patriarchy
Haeba lelapa le e-na le baeta-pele ba babeli, kapa baemeli ba lelapa la matriari le lelapa la bapatriareka, joale ntoa ea matla e ke ke ea qojoa.
Joang ho theha khotso ka lapeng? Tabeng ena, ho lekane ho abela libaka tsa "boleng bo phahameng", kapa ho fihlela tumellanong - kamano e lekanang. Ho lekane hore bobeli ba rona re utloisise hore motho e mong le e mong ke motho ea batlang boikutlo bo hlomphehang 'me o na le tokelo ea ho mamela maikutlo a hae feela, empa le ho nepahala ha e le hantle.